Communicate openly about expectations and desires.
Respect the position and defer to biological parent.
Disagree behind close doors and make a united front.
Use each other to help with blind spots and elevate the response if needed.
Love each other’s kids and show love openly.
Think the best of each other’s kids and accentuate the positive character traits.
Keep current on resentment and work these out personally (journaling)
Realize kids are selfish and that they will work the relationship for what is best for them consciously or subconsciously.
Practice logical consequences (Love and Logic)
Enforce discipline to non-biological kids only when requested or when there is an emergency situation.
Communicate openly about expectations and desires.
Guidelines for Blended Families